Hollywood heavyweight Nicole Kidman has been married to her hubby Keith Urban for almost 14 years and has opened up about just what exactly made her fall so hard for him.

“He's pretty much the flip side of neurotic,” Kidman explained of her “mellow” musician husband who she met in 2005, while speaking to Wall Street Journal.

The pair met accidentally while attending an industry event and Nicole says he rode her around on his Harley-Davidson to Woodstock, New York.

The New Zealand born singer ended off the romantic night with a picnic in the woods – an experience Kidman could not deny as special.

“I was a goner—I mean, c'mon.”

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The couple now share two daughters together; Sunday Rose, 11, and Faith Margaret, nine, and she is determined to keep her family close knit.

“I’ll pass on films,” the Australian beauty said, and went on to say she purposefully selects projects shooting on the East Coast when her kids are not in school so she can balance her work and family time.

“We have a system worked out to keep the family together,” she explained.

“When Keith's not touring, it's much easier. He'll be on tour next year, and then I just don’t work as much. Literally—it will become imbalanced, and we will change it.

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“We don’t have the answers, but the one thing we do know is that we will not jeopardize us.”

When asked about her preference for movie roles is what she likes to choose, she admitted: “My taste is really out there. There's no sense. I'm a complete random nonconformist.

“People are like, ‘What are you doing?’ I'm like, ‘I don't know what I'm doing.’

“I'll very much go on the record saying I have no idea what I’m doing.”

This article originally appeared on Over60.